Monday, June 29, 2015

7. Bavarianator

We always have that one food, or thing, that through the years, we’d get tired of it. We would either stop eating the fish’s eyes; we would get over their Lion King collection; or we’d get bored on watching Tellie Tubbies. As for me, well, mine was a different story as I was forced to stop eating my favorite food. But mind you, no one was involved to my sudden prevention of eating this dessert.



During my childhood days, I have this sweet addiction towards donuts – Bavarian, specifically. I remember that I would always tell my mother to buy a box of it for me once she get home. True to her words, she did.  I ate it right away and store the other donuts for later.

Because that happened on a Friday, we frequently go to our grandmother’s house during the weekend and it’ll take us one hour and thirty minutes (without traffic) to reach her house. From Paranaque city to Quezon City. Let’s spare the details. We stayed there for another day because of the inclement weather and we arrived home on Monday night.

As a kid, I was surely exhausted because of play time and the ride home so I went straight back to bed. The next day, I woke up unusually early and I was hungry. I went out of the room and saw that no one was still awake so I scavenged for something to eat.

I saw the box of donuts sitting in the corner of the oven so without a thought, I grabbed it and took a munch out of it. It started of as something hard then the weird tastes kicked in. It was thick on my tongue and couldn’t take it off fast enough because it felt like I swallowed a bottle of glue. At the time when I took the bread out, my whole tongue was covered with spoiled Bavarian.

After that day, that event, I was haunted by it that I could still feel the spoiled donut lingering against my taste buds.  Whenever my mother would bring home donuts, I would always cringe at the sight of it, sometimes gag. If I see my siblings eating it, I just can’t stand the sight of it, and they think it’s a laughing matter.

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Friday, June 26, 2015

6. Beware The Night!

Have you ever believed someone when they say, “don’t go alone during the night. Something out there is lurking for humans?” Yes, that’s it. We’re talking about ghosts here. Do you believe in ghosts? I know I don’t. But let’s just say, something… changed. Carry on to find out.

Since I was young, like ‘grade school’ young, my little sister, Patrice, claimed that she saw something supernatural inside our house  (or oftentimes, outdoors). She’d always wake up earlier than most of us would. Our room leads to the living room and from there, you could see two doors – one leading outside, and the other to our parent’s room. She sat there on our bed then when she lifted her eyes towards the living room, she saw a white lady, smiling at her, and a black lady, who’s frowning at the while lady. Several nights, she was haunted by that memory. We thought that she was just making that up, or perhaps, she’s a lunatic.

Then came high school. Later on, my parents believed what my little sister had been saying. But I, never. During her second year in high school, strange things have been happening to her. There was one time when my sister started laughing when we were supposed to sleep. She hurriedly jumped out of the bed and stared right at me.
“Can you hear that?” She asked me.
“Hear what?” I replied, groggily.
“Someone’s crying at the other side of the wall.” She looked terrified at this point, and so was I.
Why, you ask? Because behind our bedroom’s wall was a vacant lot. Nothing was built there. Just overgrown grass.
Then I saw the change in her expression. Her face crumpled and in her eyes were something greater than fear. She started to cry. It seems like the whole household was alerted and they came barging in our room. My mom hugged my sister and my brother asked Patrice what happened.
She howled, “Her cries are getting louder!” She covered her ears and whispered, “I can still hear her.”
At that point, I was already frightened to the point that my eyes were damp.
“Where at?” My brother looked at me.
“She said that it came from the wall at her side.” My brother moved near the wall and placed his ear there. “I can’t hear anything.”
“I can hear her! I can hear her from here.” Then, she went out of the room as she tried to control her cries.

The next weird thing that occurred involved me in it. Mind you, I still doubt that my sister could see or hear ghosts. But what happened to me proved it all. I went to the room where she was and she looked normal. But look a little bit closer and she looks stiff. I sat beside her and then there it goes. It sounds faint but I really could hear a woman crying. I looked at Patrice .
“Can you hear that?” My voice trembled.
“You can hear it too?” She said, hopeful. After that, I cried. I went out of the room and called my mom, who then assisted me back to the room. She said that we should pray for their souls in that very room they’re in. Later after doing just that, my sister said that the ghosts were saying something while we prayed. They said, “What’s that?” and “what are they doing?”

            So now that I’ve told you an event wherein I thought my sister was seriously lying, and one that proved these entities to me, let me tell you one last story which was unforgettable or nerve-wracking, or spine-tingling
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 Due to work, my parents were arriving late at night, at around 9 O’clock. My brother was working part time, as well. So, my sister and I always tend the house when they’re not around. And since we’re alone, our parents always tell us to lock the doors which we openly obliged. My sister and I were in the living room when suddenly my sister called out.

            “Ate!” She said as she ran inside the room. She started crying hysterically and I was dumbfounded. What should I do if I don’t even know what was happening to her? I was scared because when something like this happens to her, it is only cause by one thing: ghosts.

It seems like I was part of a movie as I watched my sister jump on a bed and covered her ears as she cried.
            “What happening? What’s going on?” Panic rises inside of me.
            “Someone’s crying loudly! It’s near, ate. It’s near!” She cried harder.
            But then, “Ate!” She howled!
            “Someone’s banging on the gate!” Now, her cries were an understatement.
 But why can’t I hear a single thing?! How close was it? I could feel the adrenaline inside of me. I don’t know if it was because of the fear, the excitement, or the panic.

We were already clustered in the far end of the bed when we heard the honking of a car. Papa!

I stepped back to the living room and found the lock open. It felt like my blood that was rushing a while ago, was drained. I got goosebumps all over and I was holding back tears.

 Afterwards, we told what happened to them and my parents decided to let us stay to Patrice’s friend’s house until they return home.

From then on, I have believed in spirits walking on our world called "Earth". My experiences doesn't stop there, there would be occurrences when I'm with my friends in outings or with my family but it's too long to share everything to you. I just believe in ghosts and I wouldn't want to anger or disrespect them.           

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Wednesday, June 24, 2015

5. Burn The Midnight Oil

When it comes to exams in school, you'll witness a majority of students in class, helping each other through cheating. There are a lot of ways on how to cheat but we're not going to talk about that, even if it's interesting.


 One technique in cheating

There was a time in my 6th grade where my classmate - that's getting tutored by one of the well-known school teacher - had all the answers for the exam. That day, she gave us the answers but I declined. It was the first time I saw an act of dishonesty on tests and I never thought I would do such a thing in High school.


I moved to a new school after I graduated on primary school. At the very first day of class, I immediately saw such actions and from then on, I would witness this kind of routine every single day; in homework's, seatwork's, quizzes and even the major exams.


My seatmates would have these little notes under their folder or inside their ID case, some would even give their test papers on his/her friend while the teacher's gone. It was all new to me - In fact, It was much worse than grade school - and I guess, peer pressure got to me.


It was my health class and I didn't study. I decided to copy all the notes in a little piece of paper.


Before the exam begun.

My teacher said, "If I ever caught anyone cheating, I won't think twice of sending you off to the Guidance counselor and the Principal's Office. Not only that, your parents will be called and you'll get a failing grade on this class. So please think twice before proceeding with your actions."

I didn't study but I was contemplating if I should use the paper for this and the people near me told "Don't worry, she won't notice. We've done it plenty of times and we didn't got caught!" And I replied with a nod.


The exam started when we were each given the questionnaire and an answering sheet. I placed the note inside the folder,the test paper and then the answering sheet on top of it.


Do you know that feeling where you're very nervous, your hands are cold and shaking? That was how I felt while I was doing such a thing. I was trying to answer the exam, I would look at the note a couple of times and at my teacher - to be sure that she's not looking - but it wasn't even five minutes in when I felt her presence beside me.


She looked at me with suspicion and said, "Give me that".


She closed my folder, grabbed it and began shaking it. I started praying, my heart was beating rapidly and my hands was sweating. One by one, my test paper fell then my answering sheet and pen but my little note, didn't.


She gave it back to me without another word, I didn't know that I was holding my breath after that intense moment. I was so stunned that I had to regain my composure for a few seconds before grabbing the stuff on the floor. And then, when I looked at my classmates beside me, they were staring at me with huge shocked expressions.


They mouthed, "Oh my god..."


Then, when the teacher wasn't looking, I crumpled the note and placed it in my bag. I answered the test, only with my answer sheet, pen and my brain.


In the end, I did pass that exam. From that day onwards, I promised myself never to cheat in any way. I realized that it's better to achieve something with hard work than achieving it by dishonest actions.

But how do you stop? By studying in advance, so that you won't rely on cheating, and your determination to pass with integrity.

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Monday, June 22, 2015

4. Wanderlust

On the days I don't have anything to do, I research about places that can potentially be on my bucket list. I yearn to travel. It's one of the reasons why I picked Tourism as my course but I realized, I don't have to be a Tourism student to travel. So, I don't think it fits me but that's a different story.

Let's face it, Everyone wants to travel and majority of us wants to travel out of the country but let me ask you, why not start in the Philippines? One thing I learned from my course is that before you travel around the world, you should start small, start on your own country. I got to get a glimpse of the beautiful places, Philippines offers. Truthfully, I didn't know that Philippines offers such appeal. Let me persuade you.


The first place I want to witness is Batanes. It's in the upper part of the Philippines and a little island, which is why, there are few flights that go to this destination. Few flights means expensive ticket prices and they say it gets hit by storms. So, you really need to look at the forecast from time to time.


But why would I risk the weather and money just to go there? Because, It showcases stunning sceneries, you would want to sit down in one of the hills and absorb what you see. It's an isolated place which is why there are few people. There is a place called the "Honesty shop", It's a little store that sells food and other material goods but what's unique is that no one's looking after the store. The person who owns it trusts the people - tourists -to pay the right amount.



The second place is Palawan. As I know, Palawan is the most cleanest place in the Philippines, they preserve the natural resources of its surroundings. The most popular attraction is located in Puerto Princesa,They offer tons of water activities and you would be flabbergasted by the beautiful natural wonders you'll witness.





Third goes to, Cebu. I have heard a lot of great things on this place. Since, I love food. Cebu proclaims that they cook very well and I look forward on witnessing their festivals especially the Lechon Festival. Every article that I've read stresses how amazing their lechon tastes and it would be a dream come true to eat as many as I can!



 Lechon festival, Cebu

Fourth place is Bohol. Two years ago, I went to Bohol with my relatives. We were only there for a few days and it wasn't enough because I wanted to see more of the beauty of the place. If I could visit one tourist spot, It would be the Man-Made forest. You would be speechless of the artistry. Imagine, Years ago, there were hundreds of boy scouts and other people who participated in this event where they planted a tree on that very place and now, they would be very proud of the outcome of what they did. I do hope that they already found a solution after the earthquake that struck the place.



 Me in Man-Made Forest, Bohol

Lastly is Tagaytay. I had so many memories in this place, I've been coming here with my family and relatives when I was young - presumably, almost every weekend - that I know it by heart on the places we go. We would go to the Pink Sisters church, a horse-back riding in a field - god, how i missed the horses - and finally, eat dinner at Leslie's. We would have this long table and their would always be Bulalo and other specialties. I always remember this little candy store, my cousins and I would look at it and if we're lucky, our aunts would buy us one. There would be a bridge outside the restaurant and as a child, We would climb and play on it, taking pictures and just having a good time. Then, when night falls, we would go home and might even stop by and buy hot chocolate. How I wish I could go back in time and experience that again.




Someday, I will eventually visit this places. I'll travel around the Philippines before travelling, Internationally!

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Friday, June 19, 2015

3. Dumbfounded

Have you ever done something so embarrassing that every person you know, never forgets it? And they would bring it up as much as possible which is why you want to hide in a corner and never come out? I have done numerous stuff that left me blushing and ashamed but the most recent one that i'll never hear the end of, occurred at school.



Let me tell you what happened.

Last year, June 23 2014.
My friend needed to change one of her class since it's clashing on her other schedules. So, we went to the fourth floor to talk to the head. There were greetings and I sat down next to her and listened to their conversation. And then the professor asked where we were from.

My friend said. "I'm from Makati and she's from Paranaque".

The professor replied. "Oh! I'm from Antipolo. You guys are so lucky, you're very far and I'm so near here." Then they started laughing.

So, here's the deal, I wanted to tell what I was thinking since, I haven't talked for a while.


I said, "But Sir, Isn't it better if you're close from here?"

Then, there was silence and they laughed. My friend looked at me and said, "Don't you get it? " with a chuckle. I decided to laugh too - even if I don't know why we were laughing.

Then, we said our goodbye's and as we went out, my friend was laughing at me and I asked why. She said, "Sir was being sarcastic. He lives far from here than we are". It sinked in to me and I was blushing and defended myself, "I don't go out very much, that's why I didn't know" and then I laughed at myself for being an idiot.


At the end of the day, all my friends knew what happened. They reasoned out that I'm a Tourism student but don't know where a place is situated and we cracked up for days. I should probably read the geography of the Philippines now.


After a year, It's still one of the jokes in our group. I have a feeling it would take years for them to forget it but I learned my lesson. Shut up, Janine.

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Wednesday, June 17, 2015

2. Hold It Dearly

Treasure the people around you; your family, friends and everyone you interact with. Don't take people for granted, be thankful for even having one because there would be others who would want to be in your position.

I don't always trust someone so easily but I did. I did what you would normally do with a friend; do silly stuff, sleep in a room together, eat tons of sweets and share anything. We knew each other for quite a while but she went away - in another country. So, I wanted to see her and give her this book full of our memories. Anyway, we planned on meeting each other for three different days, eating and just hanging out.



First day.
I arrived at our meeting place with my other friends and waited but she texted saying "Hey, Can we just meet on Friday? Since everyone won't be able to attend." And I replied back "Sure".

 I didn't mind it at first, since it meant I have extra time to do the book.

Second day. 
I was getting ready and then she called me saying "Let's move it to next week, I have to finish something". 

Third, last day. 
We were all there, waiting for her. The book finished and was impressively wrapped, There were about fifteen+ letters inside that were written from different people who she knew. We waited for two hours and she still wasn't there. I decided to text her and she replied minutes after saying, "I can't come today., I have a dentist appointment." 
I was very hurt and said, "We're all here, we waited for a long time."  Then, she didn't reply.

I was very sad. I guess she wasn't really a true friend, and I learned it the hard way. 

After weeks, I gave her the book by taking pictures of it and sent it to her. I felt bad for the people who wrote their feelings and greetings on paper. I told her 
"You're lucky that a lot of people will remember you but in turn, please remember them too." 
And the rest is history.

I always cherish my friends, and the people I hold dearly because I experienced not having any. I knew the feeling of utter loneliness and isolation which is why, it hurts so much that someone would ditch you or disappear without any goodbyes.

For me, NOTHING - even materialistic things - can ever replace the feeling of love and comfort with other people. Yes, I have few people that I label as a "true friend" since they proved it to me on many occasions. I'm also picky when it comes to labeling a person as a "Best Friend", I only had one - which was on grade school- considering, I really want to get to know someone really well and to be able to tell that person all my fears, secrets and experiences.

In my opinion, the main qualities of a true friend are the following: when you could bully each other and not be mad with all the teasing; when you have a problem or needed someone to talk to, you would call him/her or meet up in each other's place or at the mall; when you have some similarities and differences. I guess the most important thing is that you're comfortable with that person.

I noticed in my circle of friends that we have the love for eating, we would try anything and drool on food that we see in social media. then we would start planning on going to a certain restaurant to try their delicacies. We would also talk for hours in the library, mall, or any place that's cold - the longest one so far was four or five hours straight!.

Yes, It's not easy to find a true friend but always be yourself and time will lead you to those who will make a big bang on your life.

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Monday, June 15, 2015

1. That's Life

Communication + People = Socialization

As the formula above, communication plays an important role to society, without this there's no socialization and without socialization, there will be no learning. It also applies to People, you can't communicate without the main piece of the puzzle.

Why am I emphasizing this? There are various ways people can express themselves but I'm assuming you know it by heart. The most commonly used is verbal communication. Everyone uses this type in their day to day life - except for the people with disabilities, they use another means of communication - but some people has a hard time expressing themselves through this, I was definitely one of those people.

"Janine Lavandero , What do you think?" The teacher asked me, out of the blue. 
"I....uh...um" I stuttered and just stared.

That was how my conversations with people in school go. In my defense, I moved in a new school for my first year high. It was all quite new to me for I have known my schoolmates on grade school since I was three. I was very shy that people thought I'm an anti-social and aloof person - basically, an introvert. I would get nervous when someone calls my name; I would stammer and shrug my shoulders. That was the person who I used to be until the end of my second year.

Through this, I resorted to writing, I started writing on journals until it has been a habit that I love the most. I would get high marks on my essays and other writing activities. It has been a part of me and I was so used to improving here that I'm not improving on myself, verbally. I wanted to change. 

On the start of my third year, I did things the shy me wouldn't do. What, you say? Well, It took a lot of guts to do these things. I had to argue with myself numerous times to come out of my comfort zone. I was the one who would come up to a person and talk to them. Most of the time, be the leader of group presentations or projects and I would try to answer the questions of my teachers. For me, It was a huge NO to not be able to utter a word.


As time passed, I was improving but not a lot. There would still be times where I would rather be alone but that's normal, It makes me more comfortable and relaxed. So, I really didn't mind if I'm accompanied by someone or not but through this experience, I learned tons of life lessons. I gained more confidence, enhanced my communication skills and knew how to interact with different people. I'm still grasping and improving but the most important thing that I learned is to always find a solution in a problem, think and look at every possibility, do not walk away from it because you won't attain anything by being lethargic.


And this, my friend, is what I want you to realize. There's still time for you to improve on other matters, It applies on everything. Improve, improve and never give up but always remember, always be you.

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